“Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.” – Mark Twain
Peter asked Jesus, “Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?” You may be surprised at the answer Jesus gave. Jesus said: “I say not unto thee, until seven times, but until seventy times seven.” And, no, this does not mean we must forgive 49 times but on time 50, we can forget about forgiveness. Jesus means, we must always forgive and forgive from the heart. Forgiving from the heart entails letting go of anger and resentment. We have to give up our rights to revenge and leave justice to God.
We grieved God by our sinful actions, but He forgave us. Seven times? Forty-nine times? No. He forgave each and every one of our sins. “As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.” (Psalm 103:12) And so he expects us to forgive others, even when they have terribly wronged us.
Forgiveness is often a difficult task to accomplish, but an absolute necessity for the prospering Christian. You may not understand the blessings that come with forgiveness. Not only for others, but for yourself as well. It frees you!
Forgiving someone who has hurt you takes some work. It may take time and lots of prayer. It also takes humility and courage. But, in the end, you will be the better for it. So, let the blessings flow. Let’s work on forgiving!
“Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants. And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents. But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made. The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt.” – Matthew 18:21-27